The Little Starlings

Getting a call from the teacher about your child biting or hitting another child can feel upsetting. But it is more common than most parents think, especially in kids' daycare settings. The good news is that it is usually a phase, not a sign of bad behavior. Why Do Toddlers Bite or Hit? Young children are still learning to manage big emotions with very few words. Biting or hitting is often how they communicate. Common reasons include: Limited vocabulary: They can’t yet say “I want that toy” or “Stop it.” Frustration: Sharing, waiting, and taking turns are hard skills to learn. Teething: Sore gums can lead to biting for relief. Seeking attention: Even negative attention feels rewarding to a child. Overstimulation: Noise, crowds, and busy routines can overwhelm little ones. Tiredness or hunger: Missed naps or meals shorten a child’s patience. Curiosity: Some children simply explore cause and effect. What Parents Can Do Stay calm and respond consistently. Reactin...

The biggest red flags during a kids' daycare tour are unwelcoming staff, unsupervised or unhappy children, poor hygiene, unclear safety rules, and vague answers to your questions. If something feels off during the visit, it usually is. A good daycare welcomes your questions and lets you see how a normal day actually runs. 10 Red Flags to Watch For Staff seems distracted or unfriendly. Caregivers should greet you and the children warmly. Children look bored or distressed. A few tears are normal, but constant unhappiness is not. High child-to-caregiver ratio. Too many children per adult means less attention and safety. Unclear pickup and drop-off rules. Only authorised adults should be able to collect a child. Poor hygiene. Dirty washrooms, sticky floors, or unclean toys are warning signs. No visible safety measures. Look for secure entry, CCTV, covered sockets, and safe furniture. Vague answers about emergencies. Staff should clearly explain what happens if a child is hurt or unwel...